Feelings

How do you feel?

Not how do YOU feel,

but HOW do you feel?

Tell me your method.

What drives your happiness,

and when are you sad?

What numbs you to pain

or let you love another?

What gave you those

cold, cruel, emotionless eyes?

 

When confronted,

you claim to hurt,

but you’re just saying that

because you’re supposed to –

it’s what’s expected –

so no one will ask questions,

or give you those strange

looks of disbelief –

the ones that make you feel

miserable and have you

question yourself –

if you simply say you

feel the same,

because then you’re

sympathetic to the cause.

You’re one of them,

one of the guys –

you finally blend in –

but really

you FEEL nothing.

You’re’ dead inside.

 

You laugh.

You don’t cry.

You’re not excited.

You don’t get high.

You can’t stay low.

So you stay alone.

 

All you know is nothing,

and that is your everything.

You only feel lonely

when you think of how no

one is like you.

You’re turned off –

no one knows it.

You don’t.

 

You think you find love,

but it’s emotion

masked as feeling,

so you retreat

because the first time

you fell all in

it was good

until it FELT bad,

and it was the worst pain,

and love had caused it.

 

So you gave up on love

as a feeling –

cauterized the wounds

it left behind

to never again FEEL

that pain.

 

Now you are the unfeeling

outside – you’ve forgotten how.

When they ask HOW you

FEEL, you can’t tell them

you don’t know; you’ve

forgotten how to

because that’s not what

they expect to hear.

 

You can’t tell them

you are broken.

 

 

 

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Loss

Can a piece of you die

with a place you’ve never

lived?

 

If the place

is where you lay

your burdens down,

where you are scrubbed

clean and the complexity

of the world is stripped

from your shoulders

and you are made light,

can a piece of you die

with a place?

 

If it is

where your biggest concerns

are from which porch you’ll

watch the sunset, what book

you’ll read next, whether or not

you’ll have one more glass of wine

or another molasses cookie, or how

you’ll spend your next carefree

day can a piece of you die with a place?

 

What if it’s the place you find

solace and safety? What then?

 

I think a piece of you dies with a

place, but only to be grown anew –

grafted to a new place surrounded

by friends, family, love and memories

of the place where you last laid

your cares aside.

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